A divorce is a stressful ordeal and can change many aspects of your life. If you have decided to divorce your spouse, it’s important to think rationally and remain calm so that you don’t make costly mistakes. Here are some common mistakes people make when getting divorced.
Having Unrealistic Expectations
It is rare to get everything you want in a divorce. That’s why it’s important to have realistic expectations and be willing to compromise. For instance, if you and your spouse can’t agree on who should stay in the marital home, consider selling the home and splitting the proceeds. If you argue about every little matter in your divorce, it will just drag the process on and be more stressful for everyone.
Bad Mouthing Your Spouse in Front of Your Kids
No matter how angry you are with your spouse, you shouldn’t talk badly about him or her in front of your children. A divorce is hard enough on your kids. If they hear you saying negative things about their parent, they may feel even more sad, confused and guilty.
Not Being Cautious on Social Media
When you’re going through a divorce, you have to be more careful about what you post on Facebook and other social media sites. The other side may look at your social media to find information that they can use against you. For example, if you post photos of yourself drinking at a bar and have young children, the other side may argue that you aren’t a fit parent.
Not Telling Your Lawyer Everything
In order for your divorce lawyer to help you to the fullest, he or she must know the truth about everything. If you try to hide certain details because you are embarrassed or ashamed, it can hurt your case. Your lawyer has heard everything before and won’t judge you.
Rushing the Process
A divorce can be one of the most difficult times of your life, so it is understandable that you want to get it over with as quickly as possible. However, that doesn’t mean you should just accept the first settlement offer. Give your divorce lawyer enough time to negotiate a fair settlement with the other side. It will be well worth it in the end.
Schedule a consultation with a divorce lawyer, like one from May Law LLP, today to discuss your case.